Funeral & Sympathy Flowers – Frequently Asked Questions

At Van Arthur, we understand that organising or sending funeral flowers can be overwhelming when you’re grieving.
To make the process easier, we’ve answered some of the questions we hear most often from customers.
If you need any further assistance, please call us or send us an email and our compassionate team will be happy to help.

Common Questions About Funeral Flowers

1. What types of flowers are traditionally used in funerals?

• Lilies – symbolise peace and purity.
• Roses – red roses represent love and respect; white roses signify innocence and reverence.
• Carnations – often used in funeral wreaths; pink denotes remembrance.
• Chrysanthemums – symbolise honour and sympathy.
• Orchids – represent eternal love and beauty.

2. What do different flower colours represent in funeral arrangements?

• White – peace and innocence.
• Red – love and respect.
• Yellow – friendship and remembrance.
• Pink – grace and admiration.
• Purple – dignity and respect.

3. What are the different types of funeral arrangements available?

There are many ways to honour a loved one. Popular options include:

• Casket sprays – large arrangements placed on top of the coffin.
• Standing sprays – upright displays on easels.
• Wreaths – circular designs symbolising eternal life.
• Crosses and hearts – religious or sentimental shapes.
• Funeral baskets – arranged in a handle basket.
• Sympathy bouquets – hand‑tied or vase arrangements.

4. How should I choose an arrangement style?

Consider the personality of the deceased, cultural or religious customs, and your relationship with the person or their family. Feel free to speak with us for guidance on the most appropriate tribute.

5. How much do funeral flowers typically cost?

Costs vary depending on the size and type of arrangement, as well as the flowers selected. Small bouquets start around £34.95, while large arrangements such as casket sprays or bespoke tributes can be £299.95 or more.

6. Is it appropriate to send flowers for a cremation service?

Yes. Sending flowers to a cremation service is a thoughtful way to express sympathy and support. Suitable options include wreaths, small bouquets and potted plants.

7. What should I write on a sympathy card?

Keep your message sincere and brief. Phrases such as “With heartfelt sympathy,” “In loving memory,” or “Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time” are appropriate. Remember to sign the card so the family knows who sent the flowers.

8. How far in advance should I order funeral flowers?

We recommend ordering at least 24–48 hours before the service. If you need a last‑minute arrangement, please call or WhatsApp us and we’ll do our best to help.

9. Can I customise the flower arrangement?

Absolutely. Many families request designs that reflect the personality or favourite flowers of the deceased. Contact us to discuss your ideas.

10. Do certain religions or cultures have specific funeral flower traditions?

Yes. For example, in Buddhist traditions white flowers are preferred, while some Jewish customs discourage flowers altogether. We can advise you on appropriate choices for different faiths or customs.

11. Is it appropriate to send flowers to the family’s home after the funeral?

Sending sympathy flowers or plants to the family’s home is a thoughtful gesture, especially if you cannot attend the service.

12. Can I include personal items in the floral arrangement?

Yes. We can incorporate small keepsakes such as ribbons, photos or mementos. Let us know what you have in mind.

13. How do I know if the flowers were delivered successfully?

We provide email confirmation once your flowers have been delivered. If you would like a photo of the arrangement prior to delivery, please let us know.

14. What is the difference between funeral flowers and sympathy flowers?

Funeral flowers are sent to the service or viewing, while sympathy flowers are delivered to the family’s home to offer comfort after the funeral.

15. Do you offer eco‑friendly or biodegradable options?

Yes. We provide arrangements made with organic or locally sourced flowers and biodegradable materials. Please enquire if you’d like an eco‑friendly tribute.

from the immediate family

Flowers for the casket, religious symbols and funeral letters are usually chosen by the immediate family of the deceased.
We offer a complete flexibility on colours and flowers chosen across all tributes. 

from close friends and family

There are a large range of tributes to choose from when paying your respects to a loved one. Close friends and family tend to choose Wreaths, Hearts, Pillows and other shapes, as well as bespoke floral arrangements. Each tribute can be made using bespoke colours and flowers, so please don't hesitate to ask if you prefer something slightly different.

from friends and colleagues

A range of sheaves (flat traditional bouquets) or sprays are available to choose for friends and colleagues looking to pay their respects. Some companies may choose to send flowers on behalf of all the colleagues at the company, I.E a large wreath in the company colours.