Losing a loved one is never easy, and finding the right way to say goodbye can feel overwhelming. One of the most meaningful ways to express sympathy, love, and respect is through flowers. At Van Arthur Florist in Harrow, we understand how important it is to choose funeral flowers that reflect your relationship, your loved one’s personality, and the message you want to convey.
In this guide, we’ll help you choose the right funeral flowers with compassion and care, so you can honour your loved one in a way that feels just right.
1. Consider the Relationship
The type of flowers and tributes you choose often depend on your relationship with the deceased. Here are some general guidelines:
Immediate family: Coffin sprays, casket covers, large wreaths, and name/letter tributes (e.g. MUM, DAD).
Extended family or close friends: Hearts, pillows, posies, and funeral baskets.
Colleagues or acquaintances: Sheaves, wreaths, or simple arrangements.
2. Choose the Right Type of Tribute
Different tribute styles convey different meanings and suit different settings:
Casket Sprays: Typically chosen by close family members, these are large arrangements that rest on the coffin.
Letter Tributes: Spelling out names or roles like "GRANDAD" or "BROTHER", often in white flowers with ribbon edges.
Wreaths & Posies: Circular arrangements symbolising eternal life and remembrance.
Hearts & Crosses: Often chosen to reflect love or faith.
Bespoke Tributes: Personalised designs like football shirts, vehicles, or hobbies to represent the person’s life.
3. Pick Flowers That Carry Meaning
Every flower tells a story. Some traditional choices for funerals include:
Lilies: Represent purity and restored innocence.
Roses: Love and grief. Red for deep love, white for reverence, yellow for friendship.
Carnations: Admiration and remembrance.
Chrysanthemums: Popular in many cultures as symbols of honour and grief.
Orchids: Everlasting love.
We source our flowers fresh from Holland, Kenya and Ecuador to ensure lasting quality and beauty.
4. Think About Colour Schemes
Colours can set the tone for your tribute:
White & Cream: Purity, peace, and remembrance.
Red & Burgundy: Love and respect.
Yellow & Orange: Warmth, happiness, and celebration of life.
Pastels: Soft and gentle for a peaceful farewell.
5. Local Delivery to Harrow and Beyond
At Van Arthur Florist, we offer free delivery to funeral homes across Harrow, Ruislip, Northwood, and surrounding areas. We work closely with funeral directors to ensure every tribute is delivered on time and with care.
6. Let Us Guide You
If you're not sure what to choose, we’re here to help. Our compassionate team will walk you through every option and create a bespoke arrangement that truly honours your loved one.
You can call us on 0203 583 3084 - you can also whatsapp us on the same number, or email us at harrow@vanarthur.com to discuss your tribute.
Van Arthur Florist – Funeral Flowers in Harrow You Can Trust
For over 10 years, we’ve helped families in Harrow say goodbye with grace and dignity. Whether you need a simple wreath or a personalised tribute, we’re here to create something truly special.
Visit us at 67-69 Station Road, North Harrow or explore our work at www.vanarthur.com